“My heart is shattered,” Alessandra Rampolla expressed in a heartfelt tribute following the death of her colleague and friend, Mel Schilling. Schilling, a prominent figure known for her role on both the Australian and British versions of Married At First Sight, passed away at the age of 54 after a prolonged battle with colon cancer.
Mel Schilling was first diagnosed with colon cancer in December 2023. Despite undergoing treatment, including chemotherapy, her health deteriorated when the cancer returned after a brief remission in January 2025. Tragically, the disease metastasized to her brain in February 2024, marking a significant turning point in her fight against cancer.
Rampolla, who had worked closely with Schilling for five years, reflected on their deep bond, stating, “You were so much more than a colleague.” This sentiment was echoed by John Aiken, who described his devastation, saying, “I am heartbroken, devastated, and finding it hard to breathe.” Aiken characterized Schilling as a guiding force and a role model in their shared profession.
Mel Schilling’s commitment to her work as a psychologist spanned over 20 years, during which she earned a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology and a Graduate Diploma in Psychology. Her expertise and compassionate approach made her a beloved figure in the field.
In her final months, Schilling made the difficult decision to step back from filming to prioritize her family and health, a choice that underscored her dedication to her loved ones. She was surrounded by love when she died, leaving behind her husband, Gareth Brisbane, and their ten-year-old daughter, Maddie.
Alessandra Rampolla concluded her tribute with a poignant message: “You will be deeply, deeply missed… but never forgotten, Chica.” This heartfelt farewell encapsulates the profound impact Schilling had on those around her.
As the community mourns the loss of Mel Schilling, her legacy as a psychologist and television personality will undoubtedly resonate for years to come. Details remain unconfirmed regarding any memorial services or tributes planned in her honor.